stopwhining
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posted on October 5, 2005 08:18:27 PM new
This is for women who have been married a long time to their hubbies,not honeymooners.
now dont be bashful,tell the truth?
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thedewey
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posted on October 6, 2005 12:53:43 AM new
You betcha! 
(23 years together so far - dated for 6, married for 17) 
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Roadsmith
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posted on October 6, 2005 01:57:28 PM new
Ditto - and 46 years!
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twig125silver
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posted on October 6, 2005 03:11:01 PM new
what Roadsmith said....only for 12 years.
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piinthesky
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posted on October 6, 2005 06:42:05 PM new
What no details? Well, this thread is no fun. 
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Roadsmith
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posted on October 6, 2005 07:02:56 PM new
Pi: Why should we give away our time-tested secrets?!!
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stopwhining
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posted on October 7, 2005 07:13:05 AM new
the reason why they cant give any details IS THAT THEY HAVE FALLEN ASLEEP WHILE MAKING LOVE!!!!!
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stopwhining
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posted on October 7, 2005 07:14:28 AM new
or they equate love making to making a pot roast or darning old socks!!
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NearTheSea
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posted on October 7, 2005 07:29:38 AM new
wives are still darning socks??
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thedewey
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posted on October 7, 2005 07:30:25 AM new
ROFL! Not hardly! (to the falling asleep or darning socks comments)!
Kinda difficult to give details on a PG-rated board. >> giggle <<
[ edited by thedewey on Oct 7, 2005 07:31 AM ]
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maggiemuggins
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posted on October 7, 2005 08:22:06 AM new
do wives really enjoy having sex with their husbands?
Uh.. you mean, as compared to having sex with their boyfriend?
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stopwhining
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posted on October 7, 2005 09:09:57 AM new
maggie,
yes,compared to making pot roast,darning socks,watching clothes spin in a dryer at the washerteria or doing it with a lover/boyfriend!
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maggiemuggins
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posted on October 7, 2005 09:54:58 AM new
Oh yeah..it's been quite a ride..started out riding a stallion and ended up on a mule..LOL
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piinthesky
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posted on October 7, 2005 10:01:29 AM new
I wouldn't expect anyone to give away their secrets. I just thought that with my vast amount of hands on knowledge in this area that I could be of some assistance to those that were not finding enjoyment in this area of their lives by offering suggestions to enhance their experience. Of course, if they'd rather just fall asleep, darn socks or cook a pot roast then that is their choice to do.
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Definition of a sophisticated lady; is one that wears fur all day and fox all night.
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stopwhining
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posted on October 7, 2005 10:34:50 AM new
scrabbles,trivial pursuits are good too,of course nothing beats black jack in Las Vegas!
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piinthesky
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posted on October 7, 2005 11:06:04 AM new
Ah yes, the games people play!
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Linda_K
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posted on October 7, 2005 12:24:45 PM new
My answer to the topic question would be that the women who don't enjoy having sex with their husbands, have husbands that don't either care or know how to please them....making them want them more, rather than caring whether the socks get darned or not. ....[that was a good one - made me laugh anyway.]
Is this a 'problem' you're experiencing, stopwhining???
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And to piinthesky:
LOL @ I wouldn't expect anyone to give away their secrets. I just thought that with my vast amount of hands on knowledge in this area that I could be of some assistance to those that were not finding enjoyment in this area of their lives by offering suggestions to enhance their experience.
Assistance????? In what way, exactly. LOL
Sounds to me like we might have our very own 'sexual counselor' here on the RT. Problem is, it didn't sound to me like many of the 'long term marriages' were having any 'problems' in this area.....but hey...don't let that hold you back. LOL
Share some 'of this vast knowledge' with all of us....I know I'd be interested in hearing of your 'special' talents - and I doubt that I'm alone.
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piinthesky
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posted on October 7, 2005 01:29:24 PM new
My answer to the topic question would be that the women who don't enjoy having sex with their husbands, have husbands that don't either care or know how to please them....making them want them more, rather than caring whether the socks get darned or not.
Allthough you are correct that some men either don't care or don't know how to please their women, it's not allways the mans fault based on his performance in bed. Believe it or not, women, at times, can be as impotent as men can be, at times, however, it is a condition that is medically treatable and after proper treatment, sex can again be enjoyable by both husband and wife. It's important that both husband and wife are willing to accept that there is a problem and be willing to be 100% open and honest with each other and their doctor about it.
As far as me being considered a sexual counselor here, that is fine by me as I do have vast experience in this area and I would be happy to share my knowledge if it would help anyone.
Maggie made a brief reference to bringing in a third party as a possible means of heating things up in the bedroom. That is, if I read the intent of her post correctly when she said; Uh.. you mean, as compared to having sex with their boyfriend? in response to the original question of do wives really enjoy having sex with their husbands?
My best advice on this is that in most cases bringing in a third party for sex is not a wise move because of issues of jealosy and infidelity.
ed to add the word 'don't' to my reply to Linda
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maggiemuggins
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posted on October 7, 2005 01:51:11 PM new
Twas just making a little ha ha, Pi..
I would never advocate bringing a third party into a marriage. (Except a lawyer when needed)
To answer your question Stop.. my opinion is that SEX is highly over rated, not to mention messy and undignified and such a pain in the ass waste of time..
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piinthesky
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posted on October 7, 2005 01:56:06 PM new
ha ha ok, i gotcha.
and such a pain in the ass
Maggie, i don't advocate anal sex either. LOL
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maggiemuggins
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posted on October 7, 2005 02:00:05 PM new
Well, Pi, I'm not advocating back door sex either, but as a sexpert, I'd have thought you might have given it a try?
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piinthesky
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posted on October 7, 2005 02:15:50 PM new
This old dog won't hunt down dirt roads, sorry.
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maggiemuggins
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posted on October 7, 2005 02:16:49 PM new
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stopwhining
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posted on October 7, 2005 04:48:46 PM new
Is it Logandad who implied a lot of dirt road venture when a woman has more than 3 children.
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Bear1949
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posted on October 7, 2005 05:24:33 PM new
I would never advocate bringing a third party into a marriage. (Except a lawyer when needed)
So is that why all the motels in the area know you by your first name?
I gave my liberal neighbors son a book for his birthday. He went crazy trying to find where to put the batteries.
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maggiemuggins
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posted on October 7, 2005 05:49:09 PM new
I don't get it bear???? Motels? My Name??
uh..what?? Maggie
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piinthesky
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posted on October 7, 2005 06:02:33 PM new
Maggie, I think Bear must have meant that you have been meeting with lawyers at motels to discuss sueing insurance companies over the hurricane damage that was done to your home. Isn't that right Bear?
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maggiemuggins
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posted on October 7, 2005 06:06:05 PM new
Oh..okay..well he isn't far from the truth in that case...LOL..I couldn't understand what he meant about me going to motels where everybody knows my name, I haven't evacuated that many times!!
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piinthesky
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posted on October 7, 2005 06:14:05 PM new
But the mention of motels being brought into this discussion reminds me of one time that i went to one with a particular young lady and the walls were so thin that we could hear the couple next door to us. It sounded like they were eating candy bars all night long because all we heard all night long was, OH HENRY, OH HENRY. LOL
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maggiemuggins
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posted on October 7, 2005 06:17:23 PM new
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