posted on May 15, 2001 08:46:01 AM new
well speak of the........ LOL!!!
sorry Sara, didn't see someone was addressing a poster -sorry couldn't help that one!
posted on May 15, 2001 08:56:16 AM new
Who's on first, what's on second and I dunno is on third.......talk about button, button who has the button?
Now my philosphy is neither a borrower or a lender be...imagine where that would have left Shakespeare and Marc Antony: Friends, Romans, Countrymen lend me your ears. I come to bury Caesar, not to praise him...etc.
posted on May 15, 2001 09:36:23 AM new
"Not that I'm incapable of guarding your secrets, it's that I just don't want to know them."
"I've got something to tell you, but can you keep it a secret?"
Borillar simply says "NO"
Now, lets talk about things getting carried away!!!! If you ask me if I can keep a secret I will tell you "NO"....don't do it! If you are just "airing" your problems to me, then it will go no further. Just don't tell me this is a secret! (Borillar...does this nail it??)
Now what the hell smiley faces and all the crap said here has to do with the topic??? beyond me!
(Borillar....you did and are stirring things up a bit with the "test" thingy)
Okee dokie....I will not edit, so you all can jump on me for punctuation and spelling!! Go for it.....geezzzzzz
"If you all prefer to get dumped on with billions of minor tragedies, that's your affair -- just don't rail at me for excusing myself from this negative, unproductive process."
Maybe in my first post of your topic I gave you the wrong impression. To me, it's important to make it more clear. I don't think your a cold, uncaring person, at all. Just you prefer to be left alone form trivial problems as you stated above. That's very understandable, to me. I was speaking of serious problems of which people need to seek out a friend, or relative.
I once 'had' this friend who seemed to dislike his wife with a passion, yet he wouldn't leave her, or divorce? Every damn day he wanted to talk about her at work. He used to let air out of her tire to make her late for work. Steal gas out of her tank to make her run out, etc. Very childish crap. Eventually, I got fed up with his immaturity. One morning as he approached me, (never said good morning, just picked up where he left off from the prior day), I told him bluntly "Before you say one f---ing word, I don't give a damn about what you did to your wife. Leave her, grow up, or shut the f--- up about her". This guy was so ignorant, even that didn't get through to him. I stopped talking to him altogether, never another word.
Something, as I see it, lays beneath the surface that none of us are seeing. You are not typing and posting like you normally do. Even I notice that, and I am fairly new to the RT. I don't want you to think I was trying to change your mind of what you want to do, I wasn't. I thought I made that clear in my first post, if I didn't, I hope it's clear now. When you put your thoughts on here, many will see in them what they do from their perspective, not yours. A lot is lost, or misunderstood, by the differences in logic and/or interpretation. I think something was burdened on you that was very bad, and the outcome was very bad, for whatever reason. I do not pretend to be exceptionally knowledgeable of any topic, and I'm the first to admit it, no vanity stroking needed here. Like some here require, on a daily basis. You can get my e-mail address off of my ID, if you ever want it, for any reason. I'll leave your thread alone now. I will finish with saying this, Be you, what you want, what you need to do. It's your life, and no one else's. If it works for you, that's great.
posted on May 15, 2001 12:02:04 PM new
nanastuff-your puncuation and spelling were perfect eeeek a smilie
Mint that guy that b*tched about his wife, and did stuff like letting the air out of her tires etc.... he didn't want to leave her, he liked it. He liked doing those (very immature) things, and he liked to b*tch.
I have a neighbor, that now, I have to look out my door, to make sure he is NOT in his yard, to get my mail, or he'll start in.
Never smiles, no HI, nothing, starts off with 'my brother is dying' no emotion. 'My grandson has the rarest form of cancer, I told my daughter not to bother with the expermental treatments, to just let him go'
'OH I had a dog exactly like yours, how old is she? oh 15? thats when mine died, they usually do at about that age'
I surely sympathize with you. Those types can really ruin your day(s). Maybe you need to tell him what I did my ex-friend. You may want to leave out the X rated comments though.
Edit: Oops, told Borillar I was out of here, sorry Borillar. Responding to a scary thought, and a comment directed to me. Bye.
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[ edited by mint4you on May 15, 2001 12:14 PM ]
posted on May 15, 2001 01:55:16 PM new
Hjw
posted on May 14, 2001 04:33:40 AM
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Borillar,
I understand now.
HJW I didn't make it up....you said it see for yourself...short term memory or what...it was a joke! Crystal ball needs polishing.
You seemingly have a problem with the posts of another user. Rather than take this thread off topic and get it locked, maybe you could just put that poster on ignore.
posted on May 15, 2001 02:02:56 PM newSpaz where have you been, can you start a topic that is really controversial and give everyone something to chew on?The drama is really below paar, don't you think?
Worst I've ever seen it. Not just here, everywhere. Thought about starting a thread, "Are OAI message boards on the wane?" but decided I didn't want to be responsible for a thread full of people arguing about having nothing to argue about.
-sorry couldn't help that one!
