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 Libra63
 
posted on June 7, 2005 07:15:19 PM new
Forgot one thing. I am probably the oldest on this board. Quit picking on the elderly.

Yes dbl I am a grandma to a 17 month rug rat who doesn't like to stand still. But I love her. Also a grandma to a 8 year old who when she comes over screws up my computer. But I love her also. Ain't life grand..
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 dblfugger9
 
posted on June 7, 2005 07:18:10 PM new
Yes, I know that Libra. Thats why I chided you about what she assumes or expects about how you dont "get out much" on the internet?




 
 dblfugger9
 
posted on June 7, 2005 07:21:07 PM new
Near the Sea, I bet they dont have 'gossip' in Canada though!

 
 Linda_K
 
posted on June 7, 2005 07:35:46 PM new
lol classic - who rattled your cage?
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Yes, libra we're making you famous.
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And I don't think kiara meant for this thread to go the way it's going.....people pointing out to her HER own actions towards them.

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And, imo, dbl hit the nail on the head in her last post.
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I think maybe you might want to sit back and wonder why YOU feel compelled to do these things you're accusing "some" of doing. What are your reasons for continuing to post personal things others do or don't do when you have NO IDEA what their life is like...

but it sure hasn't stopped you from doing it, kiara. Look inward, you might find the answers to the question you seek.



 
 kiara
 
posted on June 7, 2005 08:28:28 PM new
Libra63, when you made that comment about other boards you read and that they aren't like this one I followed up with my comment which was made directly to you. I asked you the question and it came directly from me. They were my thoughts alone and I take responsibility for them.

Of course I don't know what boards you go and nowhere did I try to tell others about you or the boards you go to.

Name-calling isn't only done here, it's also done on some craft boards, webhosting and design boards, doll boards, stock boards and numerous others.

The forum that a good many jumped to when Vendio announced the CC rule has a similar RT format with lots of name-calling. The owner has a warning on it. Yes, there are civil boards out there and each person has the choice to post where they wish and what they wish.

Linda_k, I didn't fabricate a story about Libra63 and then speak to others for her or about what she believes in. I spoke directly to her.

 
 Libra63
 
posted on June 7, 2005 08:37:23 PM new
Kiara, my hands shake to bad to do crafts so I don't visit those boards as it is almost impossible for me to do them.

And it doesn't matter what boards I visit. they all make for interesting reading.


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 Linda_K
 
posted on June 7, 2005 08:43:53 PM new
[]I didn't fabricate a story about Libra63 and then speak to others for her or about what she believes in. I spoke directly to her[/i].


You've told me more than once what an intellect your are, kiara. I'm beginning to seriously doubt that to be the case.

You read things into posts that were never said.


Try to read more carefully and don't put words in my mouth.
 
 kiara
 
posted on June 7, 2005 08:43:57 PM new
Libra63, I'm sorry that you have problems with your hands. Please understand that I'm not trying to find out what other boards you go to either.

P.S. Age is no excuse either! I will still pick on you sometimes.

 
 Libra63
 
posted on June 7, 2005 08:44:09 PM new
The forum that a good many jumped to when Vendio announced the CC rule has a similar RT format with lots of name-calling. The owner has a warning on it.

Well this is in Vendio user agreement for community boards.

e) Abuse. Defame, abuse, harass, stalk, threaten or otherwise violate the legal rights (such as rights of privacy and publicity) of others.




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 Libra63
 
posted on June 7, 2005 08:48:18 PM new
And Kiara expect the unexpected in return.
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 Linda_K
 
posted on June 7, 2005 08:57:26 PM new
Libra - Off topic and you don't need to reply.

But since you mentioned your tremors I was just wondering if you're aware that there are new meds out now that REALLY help with the shaking.

My MIL has had arm/hand/head[neck] tremors for years and it's really gotten worse as each year passed. But her doctor just put her on a new med and boy it's cut them back by *at least 1/2*, maybe more from what they were. If you're not already taking medication for yours and would like to know the name of hers, I'd be glad to find out for you.



 
 kiara
 
posted on June 7, 2005 09:07:06 PM new
Libra63, I meant on the other auction site board that the warning was that it was a more heated discussion board than a casual conversation one. I just checked and it has a red stop sign and an explanation so others will be aware of the type of board it is so they may expect some name calling. Sorry if you misunderstood.

Perhaps Vendio should consider it here for the more sensitive posters or those that don't like heated discussions.

 
 Libra63
 
posted on June 7, 2005 09:07:41 PM new
Well I have other problems that I am taking medication for. I was on Zoloft and had to quit that. But I have been on nexium, prilosec, tagement since 1970 so I have to be careful of what medicines I take. I had severe bleeding ulcers and I sure don't want that again. My shaking isn't visiable to the eye, it is only when I try and write. So guess what, I don't write. It gives me an excuse not to send cards. Well to be honest I never sent cards.

Thanks for your thoughts though.
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 Bear1949
 
posted on June 7, 2005 09:54:35 PM new
Bear, please show me proof of where I have fabricated stories about others and their beliefs and then taken it upon myself to keep speaking for them and about them and telling others over and over what that person believes in.




I only had a 80g HD & ran out of space keepting track of it a long time ago and ceased keeping up with it.




A word to the wise ain't necessary, it's the stupid ones that need the advice."
- Bill Cosby
 
 kiara
 
posted on June 7, 2005 10:26:07 PM new
lol Bear... you never disappoint me. Nice try, I knew you couldn't find any.

Take care!

 
 WashingtoneBayer
 
posted on June 8, 2005 05:40:20 AM new
So kiara you enjoy verbal abuse? Do you also tolerate it in real life?

Who are you or others here to decide what is acceptable to anyone except yourself?

You say this is just a message board, however some posting here are paying for this privilege, maybe you and those who want to dish and serve verbal abuse should consider that other board as it sounds like they allow anything that goes.

What I don't understand is why any adult would feel the need to call another adult a name? Trying to separate this from the real world is just ridiculous as this now part of the "real" world. Computers aren't a fad they are here to stay.


Ron
 
 kiara
 
posted on June 8, 2005 07:50:51 AM new
So kiara you enjoy verbal abuse? Do you also tolerate it in real life?

Where did you ever get that from, WashingtonBayer?

It's seldom that I call anyone names here. In fact Libra63 has noted several times that I'm not one of the name callers.

I think you've missed the point of this conversation completely. I've never once said I'm the one to decide what others do here and I've mentioned more than once that each person is responsible for their own actions.

It was about the ones that constantly try to speak for others, always jump in and answer questions that are addressed to a different person entirely or also make up stories about who another person is, what someone else believes in and then announce it to the board.

I never said that they couldn't do it but question if they did that to impress others or because they felt threatened by that other person's beliefs or true identity. Or perhaps they don't have a valid point to debate so will deliberately turn the conversation to get a rise out of the other person?

Looks like the point I was making flew right over most heads.

 
 Linda_K
 
posted on June 8, 2005 08:35:28 AM new
LOL...@ kiara's ATTEMPT to control the actions/free speech of others. You ONLY have control over your own actions kiara....no one else's.


And you don't have the control over others to tell them when they're going to post or what they're going to say.


That's what this whole whining thread is about....what YOU don't like what "some others" do here....and you can't control it.


Welcome to the REAL world, kiara.



"Whenever the nation is under attack, from within or without, liberals side with the enemy. This is their essence." --Ann Coulter

And why the American Voters chose to RE-elect President Bush to four more years. YES!!!
 
 Bear1949
 
posted on June 8, 2005 08:43:28 AM new
Seriously, Kiara, I don't copy every post where a slur or insult is made.



A word to the wise ain't necessary, it's the stupid ones that need the advice."
- Bill Cosby
 
 kiara
 
posted on June 8, 2005 08:43:46 AM new
How many times do I have to say it?

I agree that anyone can post anything they wish to here, even the lies that they've made up about me or others. I agree that anyone can speak for anyone else..... that anyone can jump in and answer a question that was directly asked to someone else.

Is that clear?

But who are they trying to impress when they try to talk for others and do they feel threatened by the opinions that the other person has so they have to constantly post their own beliefs about them?

Who are they trying to fool when readers can actually view the other person's own words about what that person believes in?

Maybe it's rhetorical questions but food for thought.

 
 Linda_K
 
posted on June 8, 2005 08:55:39 AM new
LOL again at you kiara.


It MOST definately IS a control issue...and quite clear from what you've posted over and over.

You say one thing...and yet you do what you accuse others of doing.
That's what's so funny.


The control comes from when YOU don't like, as you've mentioned repeatedly, others speaking their mind WHEN YOU have addressed someone else. You used me speaking FOR Libra and Bear as your example.


You're pissed you can't control MY actions....how and when I choose to post. That's what this is all about.


And yet, as I've said before you do exactly the same thing.


So...maybe, just maybe you might want to use your own suggestion yourself. Just 'food for thought'.


LOL...and you've called "others" gutless when they won't 'name names'. And you've done it yourself...right here.

How funny you are when you're trying to control the actions of "others" but using a 'back door' way of doing so.


"Whenever the nation is under attack, from within or without, liberals side with the enemy. This is their essence." --Ann Coulter

And why the American Voters chose to RE-elect President Bush to four more years. YES!!!
 
 crowfarm
 
posted on June 8, 2005 09:04:33 AM new
Kiara, you're missing the MAIN point....this chat room is linduh's entire life...it's the most important thing (the ONLY thing)....you 've seen the number of posts explaining every little boring nuance of her existence.
She repeats and repeats how other's opinions mean nothing to her and then posts and posts her own gibberish to do...what ??? Why?

If others opinions mean nothing then why does she go through such great lengths to explain herself.....and , Kiara, she's been doing this as I understand it for five years!
Like an incubus sucking the good out of everything.
Let it go Kiara ...you don't want to end up like her.....join "us" on the "dark side"(evil laugh, evil laugh).......

 
 kiara
 
posted on June 8, 2005 09:05:13 AM new
I'm not here to control Linda_k or anyone else. My point zoomed over her head.

Rant on, Linda_k and say whatever you wish and glory in it. I have another house to show and I'm gone.

 
 Libra63
 
posted on June 8, 2005 09:14:27 AM new
I want to know who are they trying to impress when they post same thing time and time again. But not just in one thread but other threads. Jumping around from thread to thread to try to get someone to post? It happens. Constantly critizing spelling. Is it because they want to see their name in "lights"?


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 crowfarm
 
posted on June 8, 2005 09:29:11 AM new
The dried up old goat Libra, who won't read this post because she "has me on ignore" repeats herself:

"" want to know who are they trying to impress when they post same thing time and time again. But not just in one thread but other threads. Jumping around from thread to thread to try to get someone to post? It happens. Constantly critizing spelling. Is it because they want to see their name in "lights"? "



She sees LIGHTS! What lights ...anybody see lights!

She NEVER posts to more than ONE thread.....
Hey Lala, how about your post where you insulted Bigpeepa OP...you were the SECOND post and insulted bigpeepa.....did you edit that out and hide it so that you could complain about threads disolving into name calling on the second post ??


You two faced blathering old dodo bird!




 
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