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 Linda_K
 
posted on May 22, 2007 01:09:14 PM new
You're ASSUMING it bothers me, kiara.

I've never said that. NEVER

See how you are? ALWAYS assuming everything.


I was just pointing out how much time each and every day you and sybil have spent ON ME. When I'm sure there MUST be so much MORE to your life than ME. Yet that's how you CHOOSE to spend your time.
Especially YOU this whole last week. LOL LOL

Used to be the only time you showed up was when your computer BELL rang.

And it's been YOU who has LONG pointed out to US just how BUSY you always are.

THUS the reason for my question.

Now....if you'd just work on ALL the ASSUMPTIONS you made each day you're following ME around each thread....you might be better off. And won't feel the need to CUSS so much.

tsk tsk tsk


You shame yourself acting like sybil as long done, imo. But hey....if that's what floats your boat....have at it.




 
 kiara
 
posted on May 22, 2007 01:42:25 PM new
It's your imagination that I spend all day here, Linda_K. I work most days - I was recently away for almost a week. In fact it was a couple of days before I even responded to this topic.


The fact I'm mostly responding to you on this topic is because I posted my first opinion with no mention of you, yet you chose to attack me and my opinion based only on assumptions you've made about me and my life - without any proof at all. No one else did that.

Then today when I posted another opinion you continued with the very same silly assumptions - again with no proof whatsoever because it doesn't exist.

Since no one else is doing that, I question your interest in my personal affairs and consider it somewhat creepy.



 
 Helenjw
 
posted on May 22, 2007 02:24:11 PM new

Yes, Linda your interest in Kiara's personal life and especially your claims to know that which she has never posted is Creepy...Just as creepy as your message to me stating, "I want you Helenjw".

A threat or a desire?....either choice, CREEPY!




 
 kiara
 
posted on May 22, 2007 04:02:44 PM new
Yes, Helen, her comments to us are creepy - and especially creepy after she is told she doesn't have a clue about my personal affairs and that it's none of her business.

Yet she keeps on about it, insisting she knows, even insinuating I posted that I use illegal drugs when I haven't, and questioning how I spend my time - she's like a mad pit bull in full heat.

Either she has me mixed up with someone else or she's mental - possibly both, considering she has been told several times the information she is posting is not based on any facts whatsoever and her refusal to accept that.

 
 Linda_K
 
posted on May 22, 2007 04:30:15 PM new
Ah, helen come in to agree with kiara.

Now isn't THAT a surprise. The twins, attached at the hips are in agreement.


Helen, again you have taken a post and as usual are twisting it into something it never was.

I think you're joining the list of 'delusional' progressives.

There was nothing 'creepy' about what I wrote.

It's just all in your twisted mind.

And you LOVE the game just as much as kiara does.

She just gives much more time and energy into focusing on me day in day out than you do.





 
 mingotree
 
posted on May 22, 2007 06:12:28 PM new
Kiara, if WE are obssessed with linduh(according to linduh) then what do you call it when she keeps responding to all OUR posts ?


She probably has a different word for it when SHE does it....like her lies...she just calls them something else. !



And there's the THIRD time she's mentioned our hips ....HMMMMMMmmmmmm

latent?

In the closet?

 
 kiara
 
posted on May 22, 2007 09:37:58 PM new
Who knows, Mingo?

Anything could be in the mind of someone who would run to Otwa and disclose to others that she wanted to boink her first cousin.

 
 Helenjw
 
posted on May 23, 2007 06:26:51 AM new

During the several years that I've been here, I've never read a single comment in which Kiara mentioned her marital status or if she had children. And of course the deluded allegation by linda that Kiara smokes and uses drugs is just another attempt to disparage her good character.

This simply marks another attempt by Linda to exclude; in this case to exclude those not married from participating in this discussion. It's not surprising because she also would tend to exclude social classes, political ideologies, countries, religions, and any beliefs that don't fit her very narrow sphere of reference.

Why should marital status matter in this discussion? Single people have a wealth of information about relationships between men and women. Why should only people with a certificate comment?



 
 hwahwa
 
posted on May 23, 2007 06:38:47 AM new
Yes,single people have a wealth of information on marriage and infidelity,divorce etc.
There are so many married men/women who cheat ,some one has to be their partner in the cheating game!
*
Lets all stop whining !
*
 
 Helenjw
 
posted on May 23, 2007 07:19:00 AM new

That partner is not necessesarily single or even heterosexual.





 
 kiara
 
posted on May 23, 2007 07:26:36 AM new
Considering the animosity coming from Linda_K and threats from a few of her followers over the years which were encouraged by her, I have no doubt my auctions or my business or my family would have been interfered with if any one of them ever had any personal info about me or them. For that reason I’ve chosen to disclose very little. And I don't run from board to board giving other strangers my personal information either.

When she keeps insisting she knows about me, she is lying when she says it. And it is creepy that she won’t back off but continues to make further insinuations instead.

And now when I stop to think about it, I don't know the marital status or much else about many that post here or most of the previous posters - never gave it much thought in all the years of posting because it doesn't concern me.

She can be satisfied thinking I'm a pole dancer who screws a rock star.



 
 Linda_K
 
posted on May 23, 2007 08:06:02 AM new
Oh give me a break.

You two, kiara and helen, should be nominated for the academy awards.

LOLL LOL LOL


And helen, we all know by now that because YOU don't remember something, doesn't mean it wasn't said - nor that it didn't happen. LOL LOL

Your faulty memory has been noted SEVERAL times.


Get real you clowns. Quit being such hypocrites.

This business of liberals can do or say anything lies and all is OKAY with you.

But let someone/me speak the truth and you all PLAY at being indigent.


helen, I might also suggest that since you're here CLAIMING what I've said about kiara ISN'T true.....why don't YOU ASK her if she's been married SINCE she started posting on here - ask her if she HAS ever had children.....rather than using your common MO and saying YOU'VE never read her so stating. LOL LOL

I know you WON'T ask her because that doesn't work in THIS game....lol...lol...but she has stated herself she hasn't - to either ONE of those issues.

Might eliminate a TON of your confusion.


[ edited by Linda_K on May 23, 2007 08:49 AM ]
 
 kiara
 
posted on May 23, 2007 08:26:23 AM new
But let someone/me speak the truth and you all PLAY at being indigent.

I spoke the truth. It's MY life because I live it so of course I know about it, Linda_K. You know nothing except what you've chosen to assume about me on a chat board. How stupid are you?

helen, I might also suggest that since you're here CLAIMING what I've said about kiara ISN'T true.....why don't YOU ASK her if she's been married SINCE she started posting on here.....rather than using your common MO and saying YOU'VE never read her so stating. LOL LOL

Helen is not one to try to do your dirty work for you because she's honest and above-board, not the sneaky, conniving ignorant b!tch you've proven yourself to be.

Mind your own business, Linda_K. My life is NOT your business so back off and go harass someone else.



 
 Helenjw
 
posted on May 23, 2007 08:28:39 AM new

Linda said, "helen, I might also suggest that since you're here CLAIMING what I've said about kiara ISN'T true.....why don't YOU ASK her if she's been married SINCE she started posting on here.....rather than using your common MO and saying YOU'VE never read her so stating. LOL LOL Might eliminate a TON of your confusion."


Obviously, Kiara has chosen not to disclose personal information here. And since encountering people like you, I consider that a good policy and one that I wish I had followed. You can take any scrap of information and like a chicken scratching in the dirt desperately seek some way to twist and lie about it.

Speaking of confusion, your propensity to provide unsubstantiated personal information about kiara that she has never stated here is either confusion on your part or just a mean spirited effort to defame someone who can whip your ass when the name of the game is a debate. Try to focus on the topic and stop your personal attacks.

It's not true that my memory has failed to provide the truth. When I refer to a statement here I can always back it up with a link to the source. You cannot.





 
 Linda_K
 
posted on May 23, 2007 08:33:00 AM new
And what's THIS???? Our DRAMA QUEEN is saying WHAT?


"Anything could be in the mind of someone who would run to Otwa and disclose to others that she wanted to boink her first cousin]."

Kiara is SO desperate for my constant attention she's now TWISTING something said on a different topic, on a different board all together, and WHERE'S HER PROOF?

I sure don't see it.

Nor do I see proof of her other claims.

kiara - "[i]posted on May 23, 2007 07:26:36 AM
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Considering the animosity coming from Linda_K waaa waaa waaaa I told you before, a long long time ago, kiara you get back what YOU give me.



and threats from a few of her followers over the years

LOL I have NO followers, kiara. You've long been paranoid.


which were encouraged by her ,

LOL LOL LOL Boy, the LIES are just rolling off your tongue this morning. Yes, let's see proof of that lie too. Never happened, except in YOUR mind kiara. You DO need help. Are you really mingo?


I have no doubt my auctions or my business or my family would have been interfered with if any one of them ever had any personal info about me or them.

Oh brother. Just as soon as I think you've gone as low as you can go, you find a NEW low. Your total lack of proof this just no where to be found, kiara. I have never, in any way threatened or given you the LEAST tiny shred of reason to think I'd mess with your actions.

It's your OWN paranoia and you've accused others of the same thing...over and over.
But that has never kept you from smearing their characters about this same nonsense.

Because you're paranoid enough to 'have no doubt' doesn't make it true. And of course, there's not a drop of TRUTH to that smear.


For that reason I’ve chosen to disclose very little. And I don't run from board to board giving other strangers my personal information either."

But what you HAVE chosen....some of which I've mentioned you've said....you DID say, kiara. Denial won't change the facts.

When she keeps insisting she knows about me, she is lying when she says it. And it is creepy that she won’t back off but continues to make further insinuations instead .

LOL....that's the best FALSE statement yet. LOL LOL funny too. I have never made a statement about what you've posted here on these threads, that you haven't made, kiara. OWN your posts....quit denying what you've said. Don't blame me for what you HAVE shared over the years. OWN it yourself. Quit playing the victim. Stop whining about what you have shared.

But the funniest thing, to me anyway, is how YOU make things up about me all the time - you have for years. And yet you see that as being allowed.

Things I've never posted at all.


Is that what THIS new GAME is all about? LOL Trying to pin your own actions on me....or just repeating back to me by previously accusations to you? Either way...you're hysterical.


And now when I stop to think about it, I don't know the marital status or much else about many that post here or most of the previous posters - never gave it much thought in all the years of posting because it doesn't concern me.

Oh gawd...just admit you're not and haven't been married since you first started posting here....rather than continuing down the long long road of what YOU don't remember.


She can be satisfied thinking I'm a pole dancer who screws a rock star


One does not have to CARE about your life to remember what YOU post here about it.

LOL


This is just another game for kiara.....she should have been a movie star. Sara Bernhardt wouldn't have held a candle to kiara. LOL LOL


Others picking on our POOR victim, kaira????? Isn't that what she CLAIMS I act like? A victim? LOL She's just confused. I'm no victim...but here she is acting like one. See how she PROJECTS HER actions/statements on to others...when they actually belong to HER.

She's playing a victim again, but can't see herself acting as one.

How funny that she can claim all this garbage....constantly twist what I've said...making it appear to be something totally different than what the discussion was....and of course, that's okay.


You children need to GROW up. I think you
're borderline nuts, personally.


And soon I fully expect that we'll see you posting another of you "he he he's" that is also your MO after lying about others and after they replay to your garbage.

Then it's like "he he he" I got the attention from you I so desperately needed to get.

Try acting kiara....you're GREAT at it.
 
 kiara
 
posted on May 23, 2007 08:48:35 AM new
My life is none of your business, Linda_K.

The fact that you're now having a breakdown over it because of my undisclosed personal information is unbelievable but not surprising considering your increasing and unrelenting interest in it of late.

You mentioned encounter groups that you used to go to. May I suggest that you seek another for your present problems.


 
 Linda_K
 
posted on May 23, 2007 09:13:00 AM new
More drama from the drama QUEEN.


You might want to do yourself what you ask of me, kiara.

You've done it for years kiara, and even here in this thread.

tsk tsk tsk

NO double standards.
 
 Linda_K
 
posted on July 1, 2007 02:56:04 PM new
This might be the answer you were looking for when you started this thread, hwahwa.

http://hosted.ap.org/dynamic/stories/M/MARRIAGE_SURVEY?SITE=FLTAM&SECTION=US
 
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