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 NearTheSea
 
posted on October 18, 2001 07:28:24 AM new
that emails you and asks if you would end the auction early if they paid you $xxx for the item?

I am not going to, but the bidder is high bidder now, and he isn't the first bidder on this particular item that has asked me to do this.

All have good (over 100 at least) feedback, most are sellers themselves.

I know its against all rules, and I wouldn't anyway, but what is a nice, polite way to do this, since they are currently bidding?


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 computerboy
 
posted on October 18, 2001 07:29:48 AM new
The polite way to go about the situation without leaving you with any exposure is to do nothing and let the auction play out on its own.

 
 RB
 
posted on October 18, 2001 07:35:36 AM new
The smart way to go about the situation if you're satisfied with $xxx is take the sale. You know what they say about A Bird In the Hand ...

wrt eBay "rules" ... phooey

 
 NearTheSea
 
posted on October 18, 2001 07:39:36 AM new
Well, yesterday, when it was at $22 someone offered me $40.
Today at over $100, the bidder offers me $200. And it has 5 days to go.




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 nowwhat
 
posted on October 18, 2001 07:39:51 AM new
If you want to be polite just say, Thank you for your offer. It is my policy to not end auctions early especially if they have bids.

Just read the above info. Do not end the auction early. Generally when people make offers the item is worth more than they are offering. I've had that happen many times. Have you researched your item? What do you think it's worth?

[ edited by nowwhat on Oct 18, 2001 07:42 AM ]
 
 NearTheSea
 
posted on October 18, 2001 07:46:11 AM new
LOL, actually I didn't know, until someone emailed me a link about it. It was the same 'thing' that was used on an old comedy show. So its value, I guess is up to the fans of this show?

I started it at one cent, like everything else..........


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 captainkirk
 
posted on October 18, 2001 08:10:14 AM new
"I know its against all rules"

Actually, its not against any rules that I know of. Its especially easy in this case, since the person offering the $ is current high bidder. If you ended the auction now, ebay would collect a FVF based on their methodology, and you'd pay it. If the high bidder happens to pay you more, I'm not aware of any rule you've broken.

Generally, from examples given in this forum, accepting these offers is almost always a good way for you to lose money. Rarely does a buyer offer you an above-market value amount. I suppose there is the occasional time someone needs the item immediately and is willing to pay extra for the priviledge, but mostly its bargain hunters who hope to take advantage of an "unknowledgable" seller. Your initial starting bid of a penny may have been interpreted as not knowing about this item's true worth (which is actually the case, but just coincidentally in this case).

 
 seyms
 
posted on October 18, 2001 08:11:41 AM new
Say nothing-email no one. Enjoy your auction.

 
 ragmop
 
posted on October 18, 2001 09:25:34 AM new
It IS a form of fee avoidance. I have a friend who was suspended for a week for accepting just such an offer.

Don't believe that old "Bird in the hand" stuff!

Last month I was offered $400 to end an auction early, refused and it closed for $575.

 
 captainkirk
 
posted on October 18, 2001 09:47:04 AM new
"Ending a listing early to sell the item at a higher price to the winning bidder "

I stand corrected...ebay does now consider it a form of fee avoidance.

How they could ever find out is an interesting question.

 
 Jrodgers
 
posted on October 18, 2001 10:21:28 AM new
How could they find out? For one, it could be and eBay employee making the offer. I don't think entrapment has any meaning to eBay and you could be suspended with no explination from them.

Secondly, it could be a competitor. If you accept they could turn around and report you to eBay and eliminate some of their competition.

In any event, I think it's wise to just politely say no thank you and go on about your business.
 
 dixiebee
 
posted on October 18, 2001 10:41:22 AM new
LOL - I rarely have this type of item any more. People don't want to pay jack anymore.

A few years ago when I was liquidating my MIL's collection of 1950s country music items, I got this type of request frequently. My (truthful) answer was always that I was running these auctions for my SIL and my agreement with her forbid me to sell early. All who e-mailed were understanding and, if I recall correctly, all of these auctions ended at a higher price than was offered.

By mentioning my agreement with a third party, it shifted the "blame" for not selling early.


 
 NearTheSea
 
posted on October 18, 2001 10:51:06 AM new
Thanks all.

Yes I could see how it could get reported

Dixiebee, LOL, maybe I'll use that 'excuse'
thats a good one.

It would be nice to have that $ now though, ack.

Thanks!




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 sadie999
 
posted on October 18, 2001 11:02:33 AM new
Dear Potential Buyer,

Thank you for your offer! Because the auction is underway, I feel I have an obligation to the bidders to let it run its course.

I of course invite you to join in the bidding and wish you luck in winning this auction.

Thanks again and have a great day,
Seller


 
 
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