TXPROUD
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posted on September 13, 2003 04:55:52 PM
NEW YORK (Reuters) - Adventurous ladies looking for new ways to flirt, here's a suggestion from New York's Museum of Sex -- go to a restaurant, head for the bathroom, take off your panties and put them on your date's plate.
That was among the more unusual suggestions made late on Wednesday evening to about a dozen New York women and one man at the museum's first practical sex workshop, called "Loving You: Female Sexual Self-Esteem."
Despite living in a city with a reputation for plentiful sex -- a belief bolstered by the popular television show "Sex and the City" -- some women at this event complained they can barely find the time for passionate clinches.
Some of the advice on offer recalled old-school deportment lessons -- a woman can project sexual confidence by exhibiting good posture -- while other suggestions were saucier.
Tips were given on an exercise regimen aimed at keeping pelvic muscles in good shape and a recommendation for making eye contact with one's partner during oral sex.
The street-savvy and tough-talking New York women at the workshop wanted to learn new sexual techniques and said they were ready to take matters into their own hands.
Seated in the museum's gift shop where fake fur-covered handcuffs and vibrators are sold, the keen students passed their instructor index cards, asking questions like "How can I get back a good sex drive from what is now an utter lack of desire?"
"Think of new ways to flirt with the person you've been with for a long time," said former stripper Ducky Doolittle, who has made a career of educating women about physical pleasures.
"I highly recommend going out to a restaurant and, after you order your food, go to the bathroom, take off your panties and then put them on his plate. It brings anticipation, and anticipation is such a sexy emotion."
Amid the laughs and gasps, one woman asked seriously: "Can you do that on a first date?"
Veritas vos Liberabit"..... (the truth will set you free)
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Twelvepole
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posted on September 13, 2003 05:12:33 PM
Dirty skivvies on my plate!!! They better not be covering that steak I just ordered....
AIN'T LIFE GRAND... 
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TXPROUD
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posted on September 13, 2003 05:24:35 PM
Twelve, only if the steak was a "NY Strip".
Veritas vos Liberabit"..... (the truth will set you free)
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kraftdinner
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posted on September 13, 2003 05:27:33 PM
The sex industry invented itself. Who knew you needed all this stuff in order to have a better sex life? Sex has become cheap and exploitive and because it's "natural", people buy into all of this. No wonder realtionships don't last long these days.
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kiara
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posted on September 13, 2003 06:42:22 PM
Dirty skivvies on my plate!!!
twelvepole, so you date men?
From what I understand, only men wear skivvies.
Just wondering....... lol
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stopwhining
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posted on September 13, 2003 07:05:53 PM
what about removing the padding from your bra and put it on his lap??
what kind of message is being sent??
-sig file -------The thrill is gone!!
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Twelvepole
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posted on September 13, 2003 07:18:04 PM
I guess I made a faux paux... should of said bloomers.... LOL
AIN'T LIFE GRAND...
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kraftdinner
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posted on September 13, 2003 07:31:59 PM
Why is it that the women have to do everything? Seems like all these articles are geared towards how women can please men and people get sucked right into thinking this is normal. Women are made to look like sex objects and men are made to look like babies that are useless without lots of daily sex... fun sex with machines and dog collars... Get a grip people!
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Twelvepole
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posted on September 13, 2003 08:29:15 PM
Women are sex objects... why else wear the clothes they choose to wear...
AIN'T LIFE GRAND...
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kiara
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posted on September 13, 2003 08:34:28 PM
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kraftdinner
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posted on September 13, 2003 09:34:48 PM
In a way, I agree with you Twelve. These days, it's normal to see women and teenagers with augmented body parts, walking around in next to nothing. They are advertising that they are sex objects and are ususally the first to complain if their "relationships" don't last.
You gorgeous bombshell, Kiara!
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profe51
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posted on September 13, 2003 10:02:10 PM
Them bloomers'd cover a whole buncha plates 
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I want to have Ann Coulter's babies
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kiara
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posted on September 13, 2003 10:31:15 PM
Kraft, LOL . 
Them bloomers'd cover a whole buncha plates.
Last evening on 20/20 John Stossel had a segment on pre-teen fashion.
http://abcnews.go.com/sections/2020/GiveMeABreak/gmab_teendress030912.html
As far as the augmented body parts and the slutty clothes it seems that guys like to look but I don't think that most guys really want their loved ones to look like that?
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noh2
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posted on September 14, 2003 06:38:03 AM
in the privacy of their bedrooms,anything goes.
arent women supposed to conceive and give birth to babies,thats what mother nature wants??
so dress up as sex objects fulfill that purpose.
ever wonder why during ovulation,that estrogen level soar and women want to make love??
by the way,in the old days,40 inches hip is obscene,now it is the norm.
burgerflipper,you go first!!!!!
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Twelvepole
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posted on September 14, 2003 06:49:17 AM
That Lady would of been "beautiful" 60-100 years ago....
AIN'T LIFE GRAND...
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noh2
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posted on September 14, 2003 11:11:40 AM
come to think of it-arent we not supposed to abstain from sex until we are married?
comments please!
burgerflipper,you go first!!!!!
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BEAR1949
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posted on September 14, 2003 02:36:36 PM
In this day & age women have to go first in the flirting department. If men do it, it's considered sexual harassment.
Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." Matthew 6:34
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kiara
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posted on September 14, 2003 03:13:33 PM
Some men can flirt very well and others are just crude.
OTOH, some women have NO sense of humor at all and take everything as harassment.
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noh2
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posted on September 14, 2003 04:38:54 PM
what does it take for a man to flirt well??
is there a course we can take at NYU??
burgerflipper,you go first!!!!!
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kiara
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posted on September 14, 2003 06:14:15 PM
[ edited by kiara on Sep 14, 2003 07:15 PM ]
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Twelvepole
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posted on September 14, 2003 06:53:15 PM
www.blowmeuptom.com
Men, you have questions... he has the answers...
AIN'T LIFE GRAND...
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kiara
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posted on September 14, 2003 07:11:18 PM
My question is why Mr. Flirt's hand isn't tanned like the rest of him?
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BEAR1949
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posted on September 14, 2003 08:59:34 PM
He shaved the hair off it, Kiara,
Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." Matthew 6:34
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