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 Eventer
 
posted on October 21, 2001 09:13:10 AM
Wonder if fear of tampons is a diagnosable fear?

I always recall the scene in Mr. Mom where he's in the grocery store & has to buy hygiene products for his wife & the hysteria that follows when the cashier announces a price check over the store loudspeaker.

My husband couldn't care less but there are plenty of husbands/boyfriends out there who's undergo root canal w/o anesthesia first.

edited to fix my ubb boo boo & to add, to be PC, there are plenty of women who wouldn't be caught dead at the condom display. [ edited by Eventer on Oct 21, 2001 09:15 AM ]
 
 loosecannon
 
posted on October 21, 2001 09:14:01 AM
Thanks engelskdansk,

I should have put a smiley on that. I was only kidding.


 
 loosecannon
 
posted on October 21, 2001 09:22:33 AM
Well I have to admit, that I don't particularly like being sent to the store for tampons for my wife. I've done it a time or two though.

It's kind of like buying Preparation H. You hope the clerk doesn't notice, but you know she will, and then as soon as you leave the store they all have a good giggle over it.

Not that I would ever buy Preparation H.

 
 Eventer
 
posted on October 21, 2001 09:31:58 AM
Well, we could start a whole new trend in subliminal customer messages.

Customer been a PITA? Send their item in a Preparation H box. Unless they have been a perfect a##hole, then they don't need Preparation H.

I'm sure others can come up w/some creative ideas. One thing we don't lack on AW, creative ideas.

 
 kiara
 
posted on October 21, 2001 09:32:46 AM
[ edited by kiara on Sep 24, 2002 10:33 AM ]
 
 ThriftStoreQueen
 
posted on October 21, 2001 09:34:02 AM
I don't think I would be embarrassed or care what my neighbors think (I dont care now)

BUT

If I received an item in a tampon box I would automatically think "cheap seller". Especially considering how flimsy they are.

I doubt I would leave a neg over the matter. I just wouldn't leave feedback nor do biz with the seller again.

 
 kiara
 
posted on October 21, 2001 09:35:50 AM
And if the customer is a whiny baby that you have to spoon feed right through the transaction send their item in a Pamper's box.


 
 loosecannon
 
posted on October 21, 2001 09:45:55 AM
Customer been a PITA? Send their item in a Preparation H box. Unless they have been a perfect a##hole, then they don't need Preparation H.

And if the customer is a whiny baby that you have to spoon feed right through the transaction send their item in a Pamper's box.

LOL

BTW, Mr. Mom was a great movie.


 
 wowwow85
 
posted on October 21, 2001 09:48:40 AM
bids are getting lower and lower and sellers try to cut corner and keep MORE.
this is totally disgusting and tasteless,subjecting your customer humiliation in front of his neighbors.
not only will he not buy from you,he will also alert everyone he knows not to bid on your items.
i agree,boxes are not that expensive,besides usps priority boxes are free,you can always wrap it with brown paper and ship fist class mail.
if you cannot afford a box,then you should not be selling anywhere.who knows what will be next?? soiled tampon and napkins ?blood stained boxes?
fish wrappers ??

 
 ThriftStoreQueen
 
posted on October 21, 2001 09:51:30 AM
>>>besides usps priority boxes are free,you can always wrap it with brown paper and ship fist class mail<<<<

That is probably one reason why shipping costs went up!


>>>if you cannot afford a box,then you should not be selling anywhere.who knows what will be next?? soiled tampon and napkins ?blood stained boxes?
fish wrappers ??<<<<


Well, that is rather gross and going a little overboard! A tampon box is NOT the same as used tampons or blood stained boxes. Sheesh!

 
 thewholenineyards
 
posted on October 21, 2001 10:01:59 AM
Well, I would personally never use a tampon box to mail anything in, wouldn't think of it, wouldn't do it for a multitude of reasons.

BUT. It amazes me that in this day and age, with the commercials on TV, the things they show on National TV (NBC, CBS, ABC), the things they SAY on National TV...that someone could be offended by a tampon box, as if the neighbors would care what type of box they are receiving. Tampons, toilet paper, etc...they are all a necessary hygenic item and I just don't understand the embarrassment of it all.

I also have no problems going to a store and buying condoms or anything like that so maybe it's just me. If you need it/them, go get them. Who the heck cares who see's you?

But again, in reference to this thread, if I didn't want to look professional, if I wanted a mark on my feedback that would make others think "uh, no thanks", then yeah I'd use a tampon box. Otherwise fork out the BUCK at Walmart and buy one of the small brown boxes they sell in stationary with the envelopes. IT's not even a dollar with tax.


 
 Triggerfish
 
posted on October 21, 2001 10:05:25 AM
Preparation H is an excellent remedy for sunburns! No, really!!
 
 thewholenineyards
 
posted on October 21, 2001 10:07:30 AM
Preparation H is an excellent remedy for sunburns! No, really!!

Preparation H isn't good for toothpaste though Here's a tip! If you are pregnant, and sick, and want to brush your teeth...make sure you pick up the CORRECT tube.

Lesson learned. Quick!



 
 loosecannon
 
posted on October 21, 2001 10:08:56 AM
How in the world would you get a sunburn there?

Oh....I get it. Like a sunburn on your shoulders. Nevermind!

 
 petertdavis
 
posted on October 21, 2001 10:19:07 AM
You should really be posting that in your auction listing.... "we ship our items in used tampon boxes" or something of the sort. This way, you will only attract bidders who have this sort of fetish, and people who like to deal with sellers who treat their pacaging professionally can avoid this kind of stuff. LOL!

 
 Triggerfish
 
posted on October 21, 2001 10:22:18 AM
nineyards - YIKES! Was kinda hungry for breakfast...Thanks for helping my diet out this morning!
 
 nanandme
 
posted on October 21, 2001 10:40:34 AM
Triggerfish, I have never heard about using Prep H on sunburns; however, I worked with a woman several years ago that was in her late 50's, and she had absolutely the most beautiful complexion I have ever seen - very minimal lines, etc. She used Prep H on her face every night before she went to bed...Makes you wonder.

While I have never received something packed in a tampon box, I have had two just as tacky: I bought a NIB Richard Scarry CD for my little boy for his birthday (paid $5.25 s/h). It arrived with a label stuck directly to the box (no shrink wrap, no brown paper), along with the postage label for $1.33 media mail. The ends of the boxes weren't even taped!

The second one was a brand new video, and it arrived in a Mrs. Paul's Fish Sticks box...

 
 kidsfeet
 
posted on October 21, 2001 10:45:43 AM
People!!!

She did not use a flimsy box that individual tampons are packed in!

She used the outer cardboard box, that multiple boxes of tampons come in, just the same as any grocery store box you would get.

It does not mean "cheap seller". It means a seller that is trying to save the BUYER some shipping.

Or, maybe the buyer would rather pay the $2.00 for a brand new, unmarked box?

I cannot believe the maturity level I am seeing here today.

WowWow, if you received a priority box wrapped in brown paper that ripped so the priority showed through, you would NOT neg the seller for the priority rate you would then be forced to pay to the post office, right?

Shipping boxes are NOT cheap. Many Ebay sellers are not large corporations. There are GREAT deals to be had on Ebay. If every seller had to use new boxes, shipping charges would fly out of control.

 
 engelskdansk
 
posted on October 21, 2001 10:57:27 AM
kidsfeet -- Hogwash! Most sellers I know are able to buy boxes in the USA wholesale for under $0.50.

Maturity level? Cheap seller? Yes. Immature. Cheap. Unprofessional.

 
 nefish
 
posted on October 21, 2001 11:09:07 AM
This thread is definitely going to go down in AW history right next to the used Pizza Box w/ ants thread...


 
 RainyBear
 
posted on October 21, 2001 11:09:26 AM
I had to laugh just reading the title of this thread.

Shipping in a tampon box? I think it's a little tacky, but nothing to neg over.

 
 kidsfeet
 
posted on October 21, 2001 11:21:29 AM
engelskdansk, it depends upon the size of the box. For small, say 6 x 4 x 4 boxes, yes you can get them under .50 a box.

I get my 11 x 6 x 4 for smaller items for .70 per box. But, I get them locally and don't have to pay freight. That is a lot to eat if you are shipping 100 items per week, and the cost has to be passed onto the buyer, as it is in EVERY business.

Many of my items are large, though, and require boxes a minimum of 20 x 16 x 16.

Try to find THOSE for under .50. If you do, let me know

Remember, not everyone has a box company local to them, and the freight to get the boxes TO you is not cheap.

So, many times a .50 box ends up closer to .70 per box.



 
 wowwow85
 
posted on October 21, 2001 11:42:59 AM
there are boxes which cost a few dollars ,try shipping a large japanese woodblock print which cannot be folded or rolled??
in this case,the customer is male and suffered humiliation when he opened the package infront of his friends.
we are here to sell ,not to humiliate our customer,common sense should tell you it is better to find a regular box,a tampon or napkin box is not that big,there are many comparable boxes out there.
i am sure a customer understand if you delay shipment for a day or two saying that you are waiting for packing supply to arrive-giving yourself sometime to look for the right box.
so use a usps priority box and pay priority shipping if you dont want to wrap it with brown paper.


 
 ThriftStoreQueen
 
posted on October 21, 2001 01:03:31 PM
>>>She did not use a flimsy box that individual tampons are packed in!

She used the outer cardboard box, that multiple boxes of tampons come in, just the same as any grocery store box you would get<<<

Where did you get that from her post? I don't see where she says that she used the larger outer box?

 
 ThriftStoreQueen
 
posted on October 21, 2001 01:05:20 PM
Never mind. I see where she says she got it from the back of a store.



 
 Meya
 
posted on October 21, 2001 01:34:44 PM
Well, I'm a bit confused here. I just did a search of the USPS web site for the rules regarding reused boxes. This is a quote, "Reused packages are only allowed when all markings or labels are removed or completely blotted out". Shouldn't the post office have fussed about the box?

I've reused boxes before, but always blotted out any names or labels. I think using a tampon box is tacky, but I wouldn't leave a neg over it.
 
 thedewey
 
posted on October 21, 2001 02:09:40 PM
I think it's tacky to ship an item in such a box. Even being female, it would have been a bit embarrassing to me if my mailman or UPS man delivered the package (I just know he'd be thinking, "What's this -- did you win the Tampax Lifetime Supply sweepstakes or something?" ).

I wouldn't neg over it, but I probably wouldn't purchase anything from that seller again.

If there was absolutely no other box available, at least turn the box inside out or cover it with paper so that the words aren't showing.

(stray smilie)
[ edited by thedewey on Oct 21, 2001 02:10 PM ]
 
 mcjane
 
posted on October 21, 2001 02:14:35 PM
What surprizes me about this thread is the overwhelming majority that are against using a tampon carton. Maybe not my first choice, but not really that big of a deal. I wonder if a masculine condom box were used, would the buyer have been offended. Receiving your item & in one piece is more important than what kind of box it comes in.
The buyer is a jerk if he negs for this.

Another use for Prep H, cocaine addicts use it in their nose to help prevent bleeding.
Saw many cocaine addicts come into the emergency room with a tube in their pocket.


 
 Eventer
 
posted on October 21, 2001 02:36:38 PM
I cannot believe the maturity level I am seeing here today.

Obviously have AW confused with the AARP website.

 
 mrpotatoheadd
 
posted on October 21, 2001 02:49:55 PM
Maybe your customer is a closet cross dresser and he is afraid his neighbors will now realize it.

I've heard of cross dressing, but... tampons? Do any cross dressers go that far? And if so, how do they use the tampons? Enquiring minds want to know...
 
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